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There is much confusion about which states have what types of same-sex relationship laws.  We’ve compiled the list below to make it a bit easier to understand.  We will continue to update the list as the laws change.

If you have questions about the laws or the impact that they may have on you or your partner,  please contact us or post a comment below.  We really appreciate your feedback!

Allow marriage:Marriage Equality List

  1. New York
  2. New Hampshire
  3. Vermont
  4. Connecticut
  5. Iowa
  6. Massachusetts
  7. Maryland
  8. Maine
  9. Washington
  10. Washington DC
  11. Delaware (effective July 1, 2013)
  12. Rhode Island (effective August 1, 2013)
  13. Minnesota (effective August 1, 2013)

Provide that same-sex couples can enter into a civil union:

  1. Hawaii
  2. Illinois
  3. New Jersey

Provide same-sex couples can enter into a domestic partnership:

  1. California
  2. Nevada
  3. Oregon
  4. Colorado (designated beneficiaries)
  5. Wisconsin (learn more)

Great Britain Tops List of LGBT-Friendly European Counties

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ILGA-Europe has today published its 2013 report of what it is like for LGBT folk to live in each of the 58 European countries.  See the full report by clicking on the hyperlink below:

http://www.buzzfeed.com/skarlan/map-ranks-state-of-human-rights-for-lgbt-citizens-in-europe 

 

 

Prop8 + DOMA: Making Sense of Laws that Don’t Make Sense

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by Kate R. Paine

Equal Magazine’s May/June 2013 issue featured Kate Paine’s article, “Prop8 + DOMA: Making Sense of Laws that Don’t Make Sense.” In the article, Kate describes the several likely ways in which the Supreme Court could decide on the fate of Proposition 8 and DOMA, both cases dealing with the controversial same-sex marriage debates.

Read the full article at the link below (begins on page 82).
See our ad on page 22.

http://issuu.com/pittsburghpride/docs/equal_mayjune_2013

 

Delaware Makes It 11

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On Tuesday, May 7, 2013,  Delaware’s state senate passed a marriage equality bill, which had already been passed in the house.  Almost immediately thereafter, Delaware Governor Jack Markell signed the bill into law, making Delaware the eleventh state to recognize same-sex marriage.  The decision to pass the bill is especially significant, because it repeals the ban on same-sex marriage that Delaware has had in place since 1996—the same year DOMA was passed.

 http://www.advocate.com/politics/marriage-equality/2013/05/07/marriage-equality-passes-delaware

On Heels of New Zealand, France Expected to Legalize Same-Sex Marriage and Adoption

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France is set to become the latest nation to legalize same-sex marriage, despite opposition from conservatives.

Read the full story on CNN: 

http://www.cnn.com/2013/04/23/world/europe/france-same-sex-vote/index.html?hpt=hp_t3

Health Care Power of Attorney and Living Wills Are Important

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For those living in Pennsylvania, the Allegheny County Bar Association (ACBA) has launched a webpage to make the public aware that they can now do their own Health Care Power of Attorney and Living Wills. These forms have been endorsed by the ACBA and the Allegheny County Medical Society. This is especially important for members of the LGBT community, as if you do not have these documents, under Pa. law, your partner is last on the list under the Pa. statutes to make health care decisions for you.

This does not eliminate the need to do estate planning, but when you do your estate planning, this means the attorney’s work on this portion of the estate planning becomes more efficient.

http://www.acba.org/Public/Legal-information/Living-will-Healthcare.asp

What We Learned from the Proposition 8 Oral Arguments

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By Kate Paine, Esq.

Last week, the Supreme Court of the United States heard argument in two cases involving same-sex marriage. This post will discuss the most important take-aways from the first of those two cases: that involving a challenge to the constitutionality of California’s constitutional amendment declaring that only marriages between one man and one woman are valid and recognized in California (often referred to as “Prop 8″). 

First, it is important to understand that, although the Supreme Court could determine that all laws refusing to recognize same-sex marriages as valid are unlawful (just as it may, sadly, decide that such laws are not prohibited by the Constitution), there is also the possibility that the Court’s decision will not affect any, or many, states other than California.  To comprehend why, it is essential to understand how the Prop 8 case arrived in the Supreme Court. 

Originally, the defenders of Prop 8 lost at the trial Court level, when a federal Judge in California determined that Prop 8 violates a fundamental right to marry and constitutes unlawful discrimination. The case was then appealed to the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals.  Although that court agreed Prop 8 is unconstitutional, it did so on much narrower grounds than the trial court, finding Prop 8 unconstitutional because it stripped the right to marry from one group only: same-sex couples.  Because no other state in this country has first allowed same-sex couples to marry, and then stripped them of that right, if the Supreme Court agrees with the Ninth Circuit, then its decision will likely affect only California—a victory, but a small one.

There is also the possibility that the Court could reach a middle ground and adopt what commentators call the “nine-state solution.”  Under this approach, the Court would find that states like California which, through civil unions or domestic partnerships, already give same-sex couples all of the rights of married couples, cannot withhold from those couples the actual label of “marriage.”  This would lead to the legalization of same-sex marriage in California, Colorado, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon, and Rhode Island—a bigger victory.

Of course, the Supreme Court could also agree with the federal trial judge and decide that laws refusing to recognize same-sex marriages violate the Constitution—the biggest victory of all.  The Court would base this decision on one of two grounds (or on both grounds): 1) it could decide that marriage is a fundamental right for everyone, whether between opposite-sex couples or same-sex couples; or 2) it could decide that laws that prohibit same-sex couples from marrying discriminate unlawfully

Based on Wednesday’s oral arguments, at which some Justices described the institution of same-sex marriage as “uncharted waters,” newer than cell-phones and the internet, it is unlikely that at least five of the nine Justices will decide that the fundamental right to marry includes same-sex couples.  The Justices also discussed their concerns over the unstudied effects of same-sex parenting on children and of same-sex marriage on society, generally.  Importantly, however, Justice Anthony Kennedy (who many believe will be the Judge to swing the vote to one side or the other) did emphasize his internal conflict, caused by the 40,000 children of same-sex couples in California, who want their same-sex parents to marry, and who are clearly faring well.  

It is more likely that the Court will find that the law unconstitutionally discriminates against same-sex couples.  You’ll remember from my previous posts about DOMA that a government must have one or more legitimate reasons for enacting a law that discriminates against a particular group of people.  Yet, during oral arguments, the lawyer defending Prop 8 had trouble articulating any such reasons, other than to allow more time for studies to emerge regarding the “real world consequences” of same-sex marriage, and to encourage “natural” (i.e. mother-and-father) procreation.  Although some of the Justices appeared to agree with these points, others disagreed with viewing marriage as an institution whose primary purpose is to produce children, especially because many people, including those past child-bearing age, are permitted to marry.  Even more importantly, these Justices questioned the notion that a law that prohibits same-sex marriage will encourage those in opposite-sex marriages to procreate.

The main takeaways from the Prop 8 arguments, then, are that: 1) the Court may again legalize same-sex marriage in California, and may even require legalization of same-sex marriage in those states that give same-sex couples all of the same rights as married couples, but there is a good change it will not legalize same-sex marriage nationwide; and 2) the question of whether same-sex marriage should be legalized nationwide will likely come down to what the majority believes to be the best situation for children.  Hopefully, the Justices will realize that, what is best for children, is to have two parents devoted to loving and caring for the child.

Public Support Propels Same-Sex Marriage to a Win, Regardless of the Outcome

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Click the link below to read the full article:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/28/time-gay-marriage-cover_n_2970561.html

New facts emerge in same-sex marriage research

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Few facts are known about Americans who may be affected by a Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage coming soon.

Read the full Post Gazette story here:

http://www.post-gazette.com/stories/news/us/new-facts-emerge-in-same-sex-marriage-research-677556/

 

Domestic Partner/Cohabitation Agreements: Separation

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by Maureen B. Cohon

This is final piece in a three-part overview of domestic partner/cohabitation agreements. Part one discussed financial and property matters, and part two covered family issues. The final installment below addresses how these agreements can smooth the process of separation.

Potential Separation
In the unfortunate event of a separation, a domestic partnership agreement can save the parties the time and expense of litigating their rights and obligations, particularly with respect to property. Clients who contact us after deciding to terminate their partnership most often find parting less stressful if there is a signed agreement that states the partners’ wishes.

Questions to Consider

  1. What would happen if the relationship was no longer working for you or your partner?If you have an agreement most of the issues, which could cause problems, would be covered.  Parting will still be painful, but the agreement will be determined by you before the separation. The agreement would have addressed:
    1. How the notice of termination is given to each other.
    2. The time limits for the purchase or sale of the home and the distribution of the equity if it is a joint ownership.
    3. Distribution of your joint accounts.
    4. Issues regarding children.
    5. Any other issues that you determine you want in the agreement.

 Remember: each couple is different, and the issues addressed here (and in parts one  and two) will not apply in every circumstance. Domestic partner/cohabitation agreements, like most family law matters, need to be tailored to the individuals it serves.

While agreements are not easy to talk about while you are happy with each other, it is better to talk now than at the end of a relationship. Of course, the best outcome would be to create and sign the agreement and then put in a safe place and never have to look at it again!